CLARIFYING THINGS

Last night I talked to my housemates about the problems we've been facing these days. I told Siska about how weird she's been acting and she told us the reasons of her behaving like that. I told Titin that I think what she's doing with 'that guy' is so wrong and she ended up telling us about how he had hurt her so bad on one gloomy Sunday. But eventually we sorted things out.

SISKA

I got to know that she's been alienating herself from the rest when I was away and I think nobody has asked her before why she acted like that. Last night she told us about what happened to her (I've already heard about it but it's always good to see a problem from different perspective, yea?) and I suggested her to talk to 'him' to sort things out. She said she'd do it on Friday. I'm so happy. Everything would be back to normal. Hopefully.

Actually I was a bit surprised to know the other side of her. She thinks about her friends ALOT and always sacrifices her own happiness just to make her friends happy. That makes me think of how selfish I've been when it comes to my happiness. However, I told her that it's not always good to make other people priority (especially when they don't deserve it) and that at times she should be selfish and fight for her own needs.

TITIN

In this case, I'm on nobody's side since I think both parties are in the wrong. I have talked about this with 'that guy' and have heard it from his side. Last night was Titin's turn. She admitted that she had a thing for 'that guy' and she's in recovering time right now and still trying to move on. She also shared about how she felt when she saw 'that guy' being lovey-dovey with his girlfriend in front of her AFTER how they were so close to each other just the night before. And the night before that also. I myself even think that if I were in her position, I would have been unable to bare it. But last night she was so happy 'coz she got to talk and messaging with her new crush *omg omg*

Now I feel better. No more judgment. No more suspicisions.